Monday, June 4, 2012

Dating Challenges For Women, Here's How To Attract And Keep A Man

The most common misconception for attracting a man is that men are only interested in thin, beautiful women. Therefore, women who are less than magazine cover beautiful feel they have less chance for Love and Long Lasting Relationships. The reality is, physical beauty is not the most important thing men look for in a life partner and you could be closing the door before it even gets a chance to open. You could be sending the wrong signals without even knowing it, rendering yourself unapproachable by men, simply because you do not understand what men REALLY look for in a woman.

One of the first mistakes women make when attempting to meet someone to date is traveling in a group. Men do not feel comfortable approaching a whole group of women as it makes them feel they will have to meet the approval of all the women in the group. This is very intimidating when wanting to approach only one. It is also very difficult to strike up and have a conversation with everyone at the table watching. So, if you are going out for an evening with the girls, that's fine and a ton of fun. But, if you are going out with the intention of trying to meet someone, you will be better off if you only pick one or two friends to go out with for the evening.

Are you sending out the wrong signals? You could be. If you are experiencing low self-esteem, or a lack of self-confidence, it shows. You could be feeling frustration at the lack of success you are having in the dating scene and are feeling it's never going to happen for you. If that is the case, maybe the expression on your face or your body language, such as having your arms crossed, is giving men the impression that you do not want to be approached and they will never get past that wall. You may not even realize those are the signals you are sending, but those are the signals they are seeing. Don't be afraid to make eye contact and smile! Let them see the approachable you.

Men want a woman who is beautiful on the inside. They are looking for someone who is open, warm, caring, and independent. They want to see your sense of humor, the compassionate, and the passionate side of you. Men want a woman they can open up to and be able to express their own thoughts and feelings. That is the woman they think is beautiful. That is the total package. That is who men pick to be their life partner.

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